Stop Fighting: Sometime ago I was having a “discussion” with a friend of mine, which ended up with me sighing and saying, “are you happy? You’ve won.” To which the response was “oh is it a win-lose thing?” To which I responded “No we’re both on the same side.”
Sometimes when we’re with friends or family, we find ourselves arguing about stupid things. Things that don’t even matter, things that are hypothetical, but we get so into the discussion that we decide that we don’t want to lose the argument. So we continue fighting.
Most relationships end because of miscommunication. It’s not that they hate each other, but someone said something, or someone refused to let something go, or someone decided…
So if you want your relationship to work, then there will be times you just have to remind yourself that you’re on the same side, so just let it go! Stop fighting.
Dear God, please help us to fight for our relationships instead of fighting for our “rights.”
I would like to hear from you: Talk to me.