Sometimes when you’re going through a breakup you may feel like you’re going crazy, or you’re already crazy.
I remember the feeling. Geez, it’s not easy to have that person you talk to about everything leave your life so abruptly. I remember listening to one of my favorite breakup songs (Lions and Dragons) over and over again. I
screamed sang every line of that song until I wore myself out.
There will be times when friends will be very supportive, and times when they will be tired of your sobbing, and want you to just move on. There will be times you will look back on all the mistakes and wish you could change things. There will be times you would wish you could win him back. But baby girl, as hard as it may seem to you, it’s time you realized that he’s just not that into you. If he was, he would be there. But that’s alright, you’re way too fabulous to mess up your makeup over him.
Whenever you feel yourself starting to think about the “what ifs” I recommend you use replacement therapy. That is, replace that thought with something else. Think about how much God loves you, think about your favorite goofiest song and start singing (or humming if in public). Go out and hang out with friends, and other people. Go out and be fabulously you. As I’ve said before, even if he was a nice amazing guy, it doesn’t mean he was the one for you.
C’mon soldier, dust your shoulder off and let’s get you a new man… so what do you think about that tall dark and handsome brother over there checking you out… yeah you know the one 😉