You don’t owe it to anyone

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You don’t owe it to the world to be pretty, to be attractive, to dress like they tell you to dress. You don’t owe it to the world to wear the color they say is “cute” on you, or the shape they say is flattering for your figure. You don’t owe it to the world to look taller or shapelier than you are. You don’t owe it to the world to have a flat stomach, or bigger boobs, or a bigger butt. You don’t owe it to the world to break your back and claw your toes in those high heels. You don’t owe it to the world to have perfect teeth, perfect skin tone, perfect hair, or perfect makeup. You don’t owe it to anyone to have your eyebrows perfectly arched, your nails perfectly done, and your lips perfectly glossed.

You don’t owe it to your mother to be married by a certain age, or to your friends to  have children when they do.

Your ONLY OBLIGATION in this life is to be the woman God has called you to be!- i.e. to be YOU

So what if your favorite color is brown, or your favorite clothing are your pair of tights?

So what if your favorite dress is straight and billowy or creative and whimsical?

So what if your butt looks flat in your favorite jeans, or your chest looks flat in your favorite bra?

So what if you have gaps in your teeth, or dark under eye circles?

So what if all the stupid people in the world look at you and disapprove?

You don’t need botox, lip gloss, high heels, face paint, or anything else to be beautiful. You don’t need a random stranger to tell you you’re pretty to make you begin to appreciate your beauty.

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You already have all you need to be amazing, and if anyone disagrees with me about how amazing you are, I give you the permission to call them STUPID!!!

And oh…You don’t have to feel lonely just because you’re single….