Have you ever been tempted to tell someone how stupid the words coming out of their mouths sound? Have you wanted to say: You’re an idiot, but you don’t know it Well my fellow readers, I beg you not to say it. I beg you to hold your tongue because you will most likely lose the…
Tag: relationships
If my hair was long like yours I would do all sorts of things
Ever since I went natural (AKA no relaxers in my hair), I have been getting all sorts of attention. Sometimes the attention is good – comments like “wow! I love your hair,” other times the attention is not so good – questions like “why is your hair so rough?” – AKA “why is your natural…
Make it work: Make your man feel needed
needed: We all want to be needed. We don’t want that desperate need from that person we don’t care about, but that quiet need by someone who depends upon us because they choose to depend upon us. They are not desperate for us, as in, they don’t need us to survive, instead they need us…
Make it work: you’re both on the same side, stop fighting
Stop Fighting: Sometime ago I was having a “discussion” with a friend of mine, which ended up with me sighing and saying, “are you happy? You’ve won.” To which the response was “oh is it a win-lose thing?” To which I responded “No we’re both on the same side.” Tambako The Jaguar via Compfight Sometimes…
AskOsayi Podcast 11: Fabulous People listen
Hey All, There’s a new podcast out. Today I talk about listening. Why it’s important to listen, and why fabulous people are good listeners, and how to listen well, or listen better. Let me know what you think Thanks. subscribe to the podcast here: Ask Osayi Podcast – Itunes You can download the MP3 here: Ask Osayi Podcast…