I find it hard to close doors on things, because you never know when you may need that leopard skin polka dot stiletto heels, or that lime green and orange striped jump suit with fur accents… hey! bell bottoms came back in style…so who knows..
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But the problem with not letting things go is that you don’t have the room for the new fresh, and fabulous things that are out there.
Sometimes you also have to close doors on people, not because you dislike them, or because you’re angry, but because they may be distracting you from having the kind of relationship you desire.
If you’re so busy hanging out with Joe, Sam, Boo and the other guys, how will you have enough time to see if Mr. Right is really Mr. Right? How will you keep yourself from comparing Mr. Right to all the other guys, because as we all know Mr. Right is not going to be Mr. Perfect…well because Mr. Perfect does not exist.
So if you find yourself with too many doors open, that all the mosquitoes and other bugs are flying in, it may be time to prayerfully consider closing some doors, and focusing on one person at a time.
Dear God,
Please help me to not be afraid to close doors. I am tempted to be scared that if I let go of this opportunity, I may not have an opportunity like this again, but please help me to see instead that I will not be losing an opportunity, instead I will be giving myself the opportunity to experience my relationship in a way that goes beyond even my wildest imagination. Thank you because you have promised that your love casts out fear, help me to daily choose to dwell in your love. Amen
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