I love love
I love love songs…
But I think when you’re single, love songs can be incredibly delusional. I remember when I was single, one of my favorite love songs went like this:
Lost without you, can’t help myself.
How does it feel to know that i love you baby?
Back then it made sense. When someone said they loved you, when they said they couldn’t help themselves and the intensity of the emotion they felt for you. You ate it up, and beamed – oh to be loved!
But the truth is that whenever you can’t control your emotions, then it’s madness, not love. True Love is a choice. He can love someone else, but my husband chooses to love me everyday. And because he has a choice, it makes his love all the more valuable.
If you’re deciding on love today, please I beg you, choose the person who chooses to love you and not the mad person who can’t help himself. #Madness
