Stay friends with your ex…if you want to continue crying yourself to sleep. Photo Credit: Gabriela Camerotti via Compfight One of the biggest lies that popular culture tells us is that breaking up with someone is simple and it happens casually everyday. You know how it goes: it doesn’t work out, we break up, I…
Category: Self-Discovery
Breakups: Time doesn’t make things better
Time doesn’t heal all wounds. Photo Credit: Capture Queen via Compfight I used to think that time made things better, that in time I would forget the pain of past breakups, and forget the life trajectory that seemed to have been unexpectedly lost forever, so I waited for time to pass… until one day I…
Breakups: I told you so
One of the most painful phrases in the world is “I told you so.” Photo Credit: Abhinay Omkar via Compfight I once dated a guy who made it his life’s goal to stand me up…consistently. But I was smitten. I didn’t like that he stood me up or kept me waiting, but he always made…
Whose timeline is it anyway?
Photo Credit: д§mд via Compfight I was talking to a friend of mine the other day about how all of a sudden people are getting concerned about my singleness… People are trying to “hook me up” with distant relatives from all over the world…People are praying for me…and talking to me as if my life…
If you got it flaunt it
Photo Credit: Hamed Saber via Compfight When I was in high school, I really liked this guy, but he told my friend I was too skinny, and that he only dated thick girls. The way I saw it, I had two options (1) gain weight so I could date him or (2) stay the same…