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When I choose to go out with a guy, it’s not only because we connect, or that I’m physically attracted to him, but also because there is something about him that inspires me.
There’s something incredibly attractive about a guy that is creative, hardworking and brilliant. So I can understand how exhilarating it can feel to be in a relationship with someone who inspires you to be better than you ever imagined yourself to be. And I can understand why it would be painful to lose that person.
But the fact remains that the only person responsible for you is you. The only person that can make you achieve your purpose in life is you. If your ex was the person that gave you direction, it may be time for you to sit down and find out why you were letting him give you direction. It may be time to sit down and find out what exactly is your purpose in life. Where do you see yourself in five years, with or without a man. When you die, what would you like to have accomplished?
If you find yourself “directionless” after a breakup, it is not because you need to get back in the relationship… it means you need to find direction. And when you find direction, and follow it, you will meet the man walking in the same direction, and the two of you will partner up to conquer the world.
Don’t believe me? I dare you to just try it.
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