Breakups: But He’s so good in bed

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It’s hard to break up with someone once you’ve slept with them. It’s even harder when the experience was a good one.

Rebecca via Compfight

I was talking to a guy-friend a few days ago, and he was telling me all the petty little things he and his ex were doing to get back at each other since they broke up. So I asked him if they had ever slept with each other. The answer, of course, was yes.

When you sleep with someone, things change between the two of you. You don’t see things clearly, you don’t make decisions clearly, you become stuck to them, whether or not they are good for you. This is why I keep saying, keep your goodies to yourself, until that day (you know the one with the dress, flowers, rings, etc.).

Here are a few reasons to protect your kiss:

  1. He’ll desire you more
  2. You’ll have more control
  3. You’ll be able to think more clearly
  4. You won’t be making decisions based on his bedroom skills, but on his character
Okay, I’ve told you before, and I’ll tell you again. Bedroom skills can be learned, but character rarely changes. He may be good in bed and you may feel beyond satisfied in the bedroom, but end up with headaches from his other escapades. Choose wisely… You’re worth so much more.

 

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*THIS IS A SERIES ON BREAKUPS, YOU CAN READ THE OTHER POSTS ON BREAKUPS HERE.
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