So he takes your car to the mechanic whenever there’s something wrong with it, lets you borrow his car (while he takes public transport) when you need it, thinks of creative things to do to take you out, listens to every concern and every thing you talk about, forgives you when you’ve done something wrong etc. etc. etc… but yet there’s that one annoying thing… he doesn’t open the door for you…
LOL…I know some of you may think I’m being ridiculous. But haven’t you been in a relationship with an amazing guy where he’s so amazing and everyone says how amazing you are, but all you can focus on is that one annoying thing. Something that should be so minute, has been enlarged until it is a gargantuan concern, just because you have focused on it so much!
Well friend, you aren’t that hot either. If I were to sit with you, I’m sure together we can come up with 773 things about you that are annoying as well. So perhaps you should be a bit more generous with this person. We have already established that he’s not perfect, and we’ve already established that no one is perfect, so perhaps it’s time for you to start learning to focus on the amazing things about him.
Take time out today to think of three things he does that is amazing, and focus on those things. Send him a text message or email to let him know that you appreciate those things about him. The more you focus on the good things, the more miniscule the bad things become.
Dear God,
Please help us to be thankful for what we have. Help us to focus on things that are good, pure and of good report, as you have asked us to do. And help us to learn to enjoy the love we have as the precious thing it is. Amen
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