Trust: It’s not easy to trust people, in fact it’s really hard to trust people. Because many people conditionally accept you, so if they see who you really are, they may just dump you like hot akara. And then there are the people that you tell them your innermost secrets and the next thing you…
Category: Personal Relationships
Praying for your future spouse: Best friends
A lot of times when I attend weddings, the brides talk about how thrilled they are that they are marrying their best friend. I love that, the idea that you are marrying someone that you couldn’t imagine life without. What I have also observed is that often times after they get married, things change. It’s…
What if God really cared?
I’ve been thinking a lot of deep thoughts lately. Perhaps I’m trying to figure things out before they happen, or perhaps I’m just worrying about things that haven’t happened… On sunday the Choir sang this song… I like the version they used below…but I probably prefer the second version below… but there is something beautiful…
I’m not angry, I’m hurt
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about anger, and how different people express their anger. Some people withdraw into themselves, some people get quiet, some people have tantrums, some blow up… the expressions continue. The thing is that whenever people express anger it’s because they are hurt about something. Maybe they feel disrespected, maybe they…
Praying for your future spouse: Peace
I hate it when people shout. I mean I understand when people are joking, but even that sometimes makes me uncomfortable. I hate it when I go to visit people’s homes and they are yelling at their kids, or their spouses, or just yelling in general. It always feels like there is chaos and unrest…