I’ve been thinking for a while how to write this first post… and let’s just say I feel like I’ve procrastinated long enough…so I have to just write as it comes out… Well I got married August 17th, 2013, and I had so much fun! Let me tell you, there were so many things that…
Category: make it work
Make it work: Maintain your hotness
Okay so y’all know I’ve never been married, and I don’t have any kids. So… I can’t imagine what it must be for a married woman, or a woman with kids… but what I do know is that men never seem to stop drooling over Beyonce… Okay regardless of my views on Beyonce, one thing…
Make it work: Make your man feel needed
needed: We all want to be needed. We don’t want that desperate need from that person we don’t care about, but that quiet need by someone who depends upon us because they choose to depend upon us. They are not desperate for us, as in, they don’t need us to survive, instead they need us…
Make it work: What is your love language?
So I finally read the 5 love languages (By Dr. Gary Chapman), even though I’ve had the book for a while now… and boy that book is so good. Brandon Warren via Compfight I always thought my main love language was words of affirmation, but now I realize that my main love language is quality time….
Make it work: you’re both on the same side, stop fighting
Stop Fighting: Sometime ago I was having a “discussion” with a friend of mine, which ended up with me sighing and saying, “are you happy? You’ve won.” To which the response was “oh is it a win-lose thing?” To which I responded “No we’re both on the same side.” Tambako The Jaguar via Compfight Sometimes…