NINE. (57 Ways to Beat Loneliness & Depression)
Stop blaming God
God is a good God, and he said he will not withhold any good thing from you, and he also said that he who finds a wife finds a good thing… God only wants good things for you.
No he does not control whether you get married or not…he has given you (and everyone else for that matter) the free will to make decisions. He can guide you, if you ask for his guidance, but he will not force you or anyone else to do anything. He loves you and wants the best for you. Whenever you feel yourself feeling sad and thinking that the reason you are single is because God wants you to be single. Stop yourself – if God wanted you to be single, you wouldn’t have the desire to be married.
Remember life is meant to be enjoyed, not to be spent blaming others for our misery.
So how do you ask for God’s guidance?